My my! The divorce petition filed by Vanessa Long against Bishop Eddie Long, pastor of New Birth Missionary Baptist Church in Lithonia, has been dismissed, according to DeKalb County court filings posted online that were later confirmed by the minister’s lawyer.
One of Bishop Eddie Long’s lawyers, Lawrence Cooper, confirmed that Vanessa Long had asked that the divorce petition be dismissed. He declined to say if the Longs were reunited.
This is the second time in three months that Vanessa Long has called off plans to divorce the popular DeKalb County minister, who has battled accusations of improper sexual relationships with male members of his congregation.
Long, who has repeatedly denied the allegations, settled lawsuits filed by several of those members last year.
On Dec. 2, Vanessa Long announced she was seeking to end her 21-year-marriage following “a great deal of deliberation and prayer.” Shortly afterward, in a statement sent through New Birth’s public relations firm, she was quoted as saying, upon further “prayerful reflection,” she was withdrawing the divorce petition.
“I love my husband,” she was quoted in a press release as saying. “I believe in him and admire his strength and courage.”
At the time Vanessa Long, a New Birth elder, said her decision to seek a divorce was driven by “years of attacks in the media that frustrated and overwhelmed me.” She and her husband had “mutually agreed to find healing,” Vanessa Long was quoted as saying in the release.
But later Dec. 1, her attorneys announced Vanessa Long was proceeding with the divorce “consistent with her original [statement] made this morning.”
In the divorce filing, 53 year old Vanessa Long, said her marriage to the New Birth pastor was “irretrievably broken” and there was “no hope of reconciliation.” The couple has been in a “state of separation,” according to the petition.
In response at the time, Bishop Eddie Long said in a statement, “Vanessa is, and has always been, a loving, dedicated and committed wife and mother. My love for her is deep and unwavering. It remains our sincere desire to continue working together in seeking God’s will in these circumstances.”
In September 2010, a lawsuit was filed against Long by former New Birth members Anthony Flagg, Spencer LeGrande, Jamal Parris and Maurice Robinson alleging the bishop used his influence, trips, gifts and jobs to coerce them into sexual relationships.
The bishop, who told his congregation that day he planned to “vigorously” fight the allegations against him, reached a settlement with his accusers in late May after months of mediation.
Though she has never spoken publicly about the allegations, Vanessa Long provided her husband with a symbolic lift when she appeared by his side at New Birth the Sunday after the lawsuit was filed.
The senior pastor of New Birth took personal time off after the divorce was announced in December. He returned to the pulpit on New Year’s Eve.
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